What is Older Sibling Syndrome?

What is Older Sibling Syndrome?

Most people have heard of what is known as, Middle Child Syndrome. According to Wikipedia, Middle Child Syndrome is the feeling of exclusion by middle children (those with one younger and one older sibling). I was the first child born, then came my sister and then my baby brother.

Why are older siblings mean to younger ones?

Older siblings resent younger ones because they think that the younger ones get more attention. Younger siblings resent older ones because they are more capable and get more privileges. Just about anything can ignite an aggressive attack and lots of tears.

What’s it like being the oldest sibling?

As the oldest, you are supposed to "know better" than your younger siblings. You are the built-in babysitter, and you've always watched your younger siblings for free. You are always supposed to set a good example, meaning that your parents have probably always been harder on you than anyone else.

Do younger siblings look up to older siblings?

Essentially, almost all younger siblings have the innate desire to mimic their older sibling, especially early in life, says Dr. “And sometimes, they are getting more attention from siblings than even their parents so siblings become vital to them for their sense of self.”