Is it okay to be rude sometimes?
Is it okay to be rude sometimes?
But by and large, there are a wide range of social cues that are commonly known and accepted. If your social cues are being picked up on, it's okay to be rude. If you're not, you may very well find yourself in a conversation or situation that you don't want to be in.
Why do I say hurtful things?
A lot of hurtful communication occurs because the person speaking doesn't quite realize he or she IS upset. Remind yourself that hurting someone you love is going to cause YOU pain. Develop a phrase to use in emotional situations For example: Use that phrase during the period of time when you want to strike out.
How do you know if you’re rude?
Low self esteem, personal problems, psychological disorders, etc. While it's hard to, do you best to keep in mind that those who act rudely are often hurting inside. You say no reason at all but people must be reading something from you to feel the way they do, as voiced by you.
Why does being mean feel good?
Being mean only feels good when someone feels disempowered. Being mean makes someone who feels disempowered feel better. It is natural for someone who doesn't have skills that help them feel better when they feel bad to do whatever they can to feel better. When you feel more empowered, it will feel better to be nice.
How do you respond to a rude person?
It's rude in the sense of not being courteous or polite rather than being a swearing phrase.
How do you tell someone off without being rude?
For example, instead of telling someone “You're rude,” tell them “I feel hurt when you talk to me like that.” When you present your position, use nonverbal assertive communication too, like maintaining eye contact, standing or sitting with good posture, and keeping your body relaxed and calm.