Is being selfless a weakness?
Is being selfless a weakness?
Selflessness is all about strength, and it's not for the faint of heart. Weakness, on the other hand, takes the path of least resistance; and as humans, that means being selfish — wanting all the credit and none of the blame.
Is being too nice a problem?
Being too nice can be lazy, inefficient, irresponsible, and harmful to individuals and the organization. I've seen this happen numerous times. A few years ago, a senior staff member of mine made the wrong hire. This can happen to anyone, and the best way to remedy the situation is to address it quickly.
Is it OK to be too nice?
"If someone is too nice to people, they start expecting unreasonable amount of niceness from others as well. This always leads to the nice ones thinking others are being mean to them or taking them for granted," he writes.
Is it bad to be too kind?
How do I stop being a good guy?
Is there such a thing as being too kind?
"You can never be too nice to people, but you must nonetheless, be vigilant, as some will see it as a sign of weakness and try to take advantage of you," warns Quora user Christopher Kosel in one representative answer.
Why you should be nice?
When people experience at least three times as many positive emotions as negative ones, they reach an emotional tipping point—they become more resilient in the face of adversity and more open and creative. Being mean makes you rigid; being nice improves your relationships, your health , and broadens your mind.
How do I stop being a nice book?
Being Genuine: Stop Being Nice, Start Being Real Paperback – May 28, 2007. Find all the books, read about the author, and more. In this English translation of the French bestseller, readers will learn simple, practical skills to step outside of their emotional masks to live a genuine, authentic life.